I’ve been wearing harnesses for far longer than I care to admit, and in that time I’ve found some real wins as well as some real losers. When I put together my previous list in 2023, harnesses were having a real moment in fashion. They’ve always had a presence in goth and alternative fashion, but I’d argue, as many others have, that they’ve become far more present in mainstream fashion too. I’ve seen a real presence of harnesses and leather in stage fashion, worn by everyone from Lola Young, to Chappel Roan, to Charli XCX and beyond. Some looks are most definitely fetish in nature, while others lean more toward edgy alternative fashion. Either way, harnesses have a place, and many people are looking for ways to bring them into their own wardrobes.
But not all harnesses are alike. I’ve seen a real push of them in fast fashion, which I don’t have particularly positive feelings about. I see a harness as a luxury, not an essential item, so quality and safety (especially if you are using it for its intended purpose) are of the utmost importance. For plus-size folks in particular, I find that fast fashion brands don’t take into consideration the way plus-size bodies move or how these pieces lay.
So I’ve created this list of leather harness brands with a priority on size-inclusive options. And if you’re looking for lingerie, I’ve got you covered here too.
Leather Coven: Best for Harnesses and Belts That Work Into The Every Day
Leather Coven is incredibly skilled at creating pieces that seamlessly transition into the normie world, particularly in the belt department. I really love the Pleiades, so much so that I have it in multiple colors and hardware finishes. Leather Coven’s quality is really nice. Their hardware is weighty without being too heavy, and I don’t find it to tarnish or scratch. I’ve had my pieces for years, and while I still properly care for them, I haven’t seen any issues. The leather is also lovely. The edges are smoothed really well, and so is the back side, so nothing feels rough against your skin, and it all feels very luxe. Leather Coven also offers a wide variety of options, is very open to custom pieces and fitting, and is pretty quick with replies.
Fruit Leather Fetish: Best for Colorful, High-Quality Pieces
If you want colorful, high-quality leather pieces, Fruit Leather Fetish is the one. They offer a wide range of colors, from bubblegum pink to cherry red to some luxe greens and many more. Another big perk is that every item is made to your measurements, which makes for an incredible fit. On average, their pieces take about four to six weeks to complete, though I have had luck with a tighter turnaround by paying a rush order fee. Orders open frequently, so the full selection may not always be available or visible on the website as you browse. I think they really excel at finishing their leather. The color is rich and even all the way through, with nothing patchy or blotchy, which can be hard to find with brightly colored leather. Everything is also well secured, which means it’s going to be durable and it’s going to last. There’s a lot of care that goes into these pieces. Also, they have these VERY cute astrology stamps!
Emma Alamo: Best for Extended Standard Sizing
If you want quality leather pieces in standard plus sizes, Emma Alamo offers sizes up to 6X, as well as some custom sizing. Their pieces are made with a lot of intentionality. They are well crafted and hold up really well. Several pieces can transition into everyday fashion, in particular the Kyra underbust corset, which I have admittedly styled in a ton of different ways over the years. The hardware on all of Emma Alamo’s pieces is quite nice, very sturdy without being heavy, and it looks rather expensive.
Zana Bayne: Best for Statement Fashion Harnesses and Bags
Prepare to be a star, because you’re about to be one, babe. Zana Bayne is arguably the leather designer to the stars, with everyone from Charli XCX to Megan Thee Stallion wearing her pieces. There are plenty of customizable options, and Zana Bayne also offers several harnesses and bags, all of which can be made to your sizes. I think Zana Bayne’s pieces lean more toward fashion, and the grommet work is where they really shine. The grommets are set cleanly and evenly spaced, and they sit flush against the leather, so nothing snags, pulls, or looks cheap. It’s a small detail, but it’s what makes their pieces look so polished up close. I have found the leather on some pieces to be a bit thinner than I’d personally like, but for fashion it’s fine. They also offer some fun purses and bag charms. I have one and love wearing it on nights out. They also have a pretty good yearly sale, so I’d subscribe to their email list or follow them on social media so you’re notified when it happens.
Kolby Brianne Leather: Best for Luxurious Leather
For the most indulgent soft leather, I’d recommend Kolby Brianne Leather. Every piece uses high-quality leather that is very well tanned and finished. It’s buttery and flexible, so it moves with your body, while still being sturdy and firm enough to hold its shape. The hardware is also well finished and the perfect weight. Many of the pieces in this collection lean more toward playtime than fashion.
Love Lorn Lingerie: Best for Leather Lingerie and Mixed Materials
For something different from the rest, look to Lovelorn Lingerie. They do a really good job of offering a wide range of products, some of which can seamlessly mix into your everyday wear. They have an interesting mix of leathers, as well as other materials like PVC. They offer standard sizing, and with a quick email, it seems custom sizing is available as well.
Creepyyeha: Best for Glamorous, Feminine Harnesses
If you want divine glamour, look no further. Creepyyeha’s pieces are focused on the art of femininity and often feature interesting hardware. I haven’t purchased from them yet, so I can’t speak to much beyond the aesthetics and what I’ve read in their FAQ, which says some custom sizing is available.
Leather Etc. offers a wide variety of harnesses, belts, lingerie, and just about anything else you can imagine, even a leather dress. They include plus sizes, and at one point they offered custom sizing, so it may still be an option if you reach out. Many of their pieces are more for play and sexy time, though some could transition into everyday wear.
Stockroom has a very limited selection of plus-size options, but they do have a couple, including a gorgeous leather corset with side restraints. I included them because if you’re reading this, you might be interested in some of what they carry. All of their leather is exceptional quality, honestly buttery soft and elevated.
Your Leather Harness Questions, Answered
How do I care for a leather harness?
Wipe your harness down with a soft, slightly damp cloth after wearing it, and let it air dry away from direct heat. Condition the leather every few months with a quality leather conditioner to keep it soft and prevent cracking. At home, I store my harnesses on padded hangers (these) in my closet, out of direct light. When I travel, I pack them in a dust bag so the leather and hardware don’t get scratched. Avoid plastic bags or containers, since they trap moisture, and try not to fold your harness sharply.
How should a harness fit?
A harness should feel snug and secure without digging in. A good rule of thumb is that you should be able to slide two fingers under any strap. Check the fit sitting, standing, and moving, since straps that feel fine standing still can pinch or shift once you move. The straps should lie flat against your body instead of rolling or cutting in, and the center ring or front piece should sit centered on your body. You should also be able to breathe deeply and move your arms freely. If you feel numbness, tingling, or pinching, or the straps leave deep marks that don’t fade quickly, loosen it or size up.
What should I look for in a quality leather harness?
If you’re looking for a leather harness, start with the leather itself. Look for real, well-finished leather with smooth, sealed edges and a smooth back side, so nothing feels rough against your skin. The color should be even, with no patchy or blotchy spots. Check that the hardware is sturdy and won’t tarnish or bend, and that every connection point is secured with tight stitching or rivets. Adjustability and custom sizing are big pluses, especially for plus-size bodies. If you plan to use your harness for play, quality and safety matter even more, so skip fast fashion and buy from makers who build for strength
A Bottom Line From a Sometimes Bottom
These are the size-inclusive leather harness brands I turn to most, whether for playtime or fashion. Every designer on this list truly cares about size inclusion and making pieces for plus-size bodies. My big issue with a lot of size-inclusive brands is that they don’t consider how plus-size bodies actually move, but that’s definitely not the case with this list. A harness is an investment, so take your measurements, ask about custom sizing, and choose a piece that fits the way you want to wear it, whether you’re topping the look at dinner or bottoming later that night.
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